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♥ Thursday, December 07, 2006

blabablibehblu.

okay i need to rush through this post lest my sister goes mad and starts screaming.

THIS IS COPIED FROM CAT! hahaha. omg she spoke my mind. ((: not my entry but what i think about relationships. it's true, really.

Relationships and Marriage

I have never actually met many people who have marriage in mind when they look for a girl/boyfriend, that is until i enrolled into the ultimate weird school.In fact if my memory does not fail me i do recall us 5unity-ians mocking a certain currypuff who constantly reminded everyone around him that he intended to marry his girlfriend in 7 years' time.Point is back then no one actually thought about marriage much, and everyone was living for the moment.I was pretty amused when i heard a bud of mine go "I need to get laid more often. I've only laid 1 person so far you know!" but i must say that i wasn't exactly shocked or the least bit surprised.You see, to me it feels more normal to hear someone go "She's damn hot, i wouldn't mind shagging her"than to get something like "Of course we're going to get married! If not together for what?!"So you can imagine the culture shock i got when i first heard one lamenting that another sees no point in prolonging his relationship with his current squeeze because "he cannot see them getting married, and suddenly there seems no point in staying together."HELLO?When i say that BACK THEN everyone liveD for the moment i meant likeONE year back?So when i was 17, everyone around me got together because they wanted toand now that i am 18, suddenly the people around me get together because THEY REALLY LOVE EACH OTHER AND WANT TO GET MARRIED AND WAKE UP TO THE SAME FACE FOR THE NEXT 40 YEARS OF THEIR LIVES?Fuck it, this is insane.The worst thing is, they give me the "Fuck it, YOU are insane" kind of look when i tell them my theory about getting into a relationship.First and foremost, i cannot get into a relationship where my partner and i know too much about each other.There must be more stuff that we will discover about each other along the way.Knowing every single thing about your partner and being able to accurately guess what they are about to do/say/eat/choose next will become BORING after some time, and boring relationships are.... boring.Secondly, relationships serve a certain purpose - to help to determine what kind of character you really suit/need/want.AND lastly relationships are for you to grow, mentally i mean.If you dont break up you wouldn't know how it hurts and scars and kills a part of you. I mean, probably no one would really want to get hurt and everything, but then what if you divorce with your husband someday and have no prior experience with dealing with breakups?Then how?Then how?See. Experience will prove itself useful someday ok.IN CONCLUSION i think what i have just listed out makes total sense.Thus i still cannot fathom how people can tell me that they intend to not be with anyone until they are in university, and that that person will be their significant other for the rest of their livesORthat they will get married to their current squeeze.

lalala. wait. term-tests will start next monday. great. awesome. i'm not ready. and and and.. WHAT 7th of december?! 0.o oh! HAPPY BIRTHDAY GAVIN!!! pao pao jia you! AND (my sister's rushing me alr. wtf.) YES HOLIDAYS!!! forget about anything in between the tests and holidays. really. (:

GOODBYE. wth. this is not even a post. -_- thanks cat for filling it up. HA HA :x sleep early sweets!

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