some can be so empty-headed to how others might feel


it sometimes really doesn't pay to be nice.
if i give, you'd take.


if i don't
don't assume that it's alright to leave things left hanging
because i've had pretty much enough of it.


and i'm only two fingers spacing away from being negligently ignorant.


so tell me, somebody
if you have something to at least attend to EVERY once or twice a week
is it important to you? does it matter to you? and it's compulsory to make it a routine?


like example skating.
i have to attend to it twice a week.
it's important to me, it matters to me and it's compulsory that i follow the routine.
reasonable?

like example outings with families.
i have to attend to it once a week.
it's important to me, it matters to me and it's compulsory that i appear all the time.
makes sense?

on the contrary, shopping.
no, i don't attend to it every week.
it's not important to me, it doesn't matter and it's not compulsory to make it a routine.
get it?


so if such a event to someone that he/she has to
make it a habit of being there all the time
it's IMPORTANT, it MATTERS, and it has become compulsory right?


when it happens he/she becomes totally empty-headed towards his/her surrounding people. about how they'd feel to find him/her missing for something else because he/she is attending to his/her habitual event..

if the person was apologetic, maybe there's a reason to excuse him/her.
but what if he/she wasn't at all, fought to go with it and becomes nonchalant towards the 'atrocious' matter time and again?

the event mattered more than his/her surrounding people(friends, family) right?
that he/she cared more for this event than EVERYTHING else right?


tell me about it.
it's time someone made a reflection of it.
7:28 AM;